Monday, April 16, 2012

11

I think Gandhi was the embodiment of change and optimism. I think he was a venerable figure that truly set the example of how peaceful change and motivation can create much change in not only our communities but in the whole world.
“I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won’t presume to probe into the faults of other.-Gandhi” I would say this is something that I need to improve on the most with my intrapersonal relationships. Because of past incidents I have grown somewhat reluctant to trust those who should be trusted. Getting rid of assumptions is the best thing you can get rid of the retched word “normal”. This idea of “normal” causes ridiculous disagreements and demonizes others that are different. “I suppose leadership at one time meant muscles; but today it means getting along with people.-Gandhi” Tolerance and acceptance are key things to have in being a servant leader because it unties people instead of separating them. Society needs to focus not on what our differences are but what our similarities are. This way we will be capable of attacking and resolving the injustices in society or the abuse that is presented to people in general.
My favorite quote of Gandhi is “an ounce of practice is worth more than tons of preaching”. The importance of action is crucial to meeting goals either on a local or international level. The main problem that people have with getting involved is that they only analyze the risk associated with it. Phrases like “I mean can you do, right?” or “What will happen?” impede the protesting process. The freedom to peaceful protest is an undeniable human right. The only way that your attitudes towards something wrong or immoral will change is if you do something about them. Often your words alone can often be a cry on deaf ears. Actions speak louder than words and getting involved with other people in action creates a sonic boom. I want to help low and middle income students reach their goals and become successful people who are motivated and make something of their life. I love to help students realize the potential they have and what resources are available to them for their academic and personal success.
The optimist creed is a great way to motivate and encourage involvement that will cause success. Optimism is the thing that lead me to college, to think clearly about my decisions. The promise “ to give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others” is something I like to do on a regular basis. In high school, this was not the case where petty personal things impeded the focus of school at times. This year I’ve learned to focus on myself and see what I can do to help others without criticism.
This summer I hope to be part of the City Youth Commission for Mikva Challenge. Mikva Challenge allows students to get involved in government and politics. The City Youth Commission is a year round program that involves student in the policy making process and allows input from youth in city hall in Chicago.
I motivate other by listening to their story and telling them, “you know what these are the types of things you will see and if you do this and apply yourself, you can obtain your goal”.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

#10

In 18 Truths to Start Telling Yourself, the phrases that relate to me the most are “Everything, good or bad, is a life lesson” and “A few REAL friends are all I need”.
Throughout my life I’ve learned that fearing pain, sorrow and circumstance will get you nowhere. At some point in high school I realized that I was only focusing on academics and I hadn’t experienced enough of anything; neither the good nor the bad. You can’t have the good without the bad and vice versa. I feel that sometimes we associate a good life with solely “happiness” and only good times; however, true happiness is stability and the ability to overcome disdainful periods in life and to “whistle while you work”.
Genuine and intimate friendship is one of the most helpful and rewarding things in life. True friends are not just people that accompany you and make you laugh they are people who will stand by you in a pinch. No amount of gold, riches or luxuries will ever replace them. “With time…you realize that true friends are worth way more than any amount of money”-Jorge Luis Borges.
I believe that, especially as I continue my college career, taking chances is something that I intend to do more of. Fear is just a feeling it is not reality, it is an impediment. If a bad decision is made, the next one will be better and new opportunities will reveal themselves.
One of the most important things for me is to be myself, my own person. Everyone should try to find themselves and act as they want as opposed to act as others want them to. Now that I’m in college I keep finding things that I differ with people on so many levels. I don’t like to categorize myself because the closest thing to labeling me is Armando Villanueva. No one should mandate how I should be.
The STARS LEAD video project is coming along well. So far we have recorded our individual introductory clips.  My leadership as a result of STARS LEAD has been impassioned. I have learned much about what a truly helpful leader must do and the qualities he/she must have. STARS LEAD; however, needs to have volunteer time with schools and reach out for neighborhood schools like Sullivan, right near Loyola, that are of dire need. We are not involved enough and reflection is great but there’s not enough action and motivation going on which is the purpose of being a leader. I know there are many student out there that need to know where they are going for college and what they want to do with their lives.